Top Irritating Questions You Need To Stop Asking Your Partner
A healthy relationship requires proper communication. Most guys are always willing to answer any questions from their respective partners no matter how ridiculous the questions may be. We asked guys to name a few things they hate being asked by their girlfriends and you won't believe how much patience they have in answering these silly questions:
1. "Mahal mo ba ako?"
Even when you know your boyfriend loves you, sometimes, asking this question comes as an assurance that your partner is obviously in love with you when he says, "yes". But it still won't be enough. This question is always followed by "bakit mo ako mahal?" because you always need to know why. Remember that he chose to be with you for a reason, don't make him question his love for you, whether it is real or not, or the reasons behind it.
2. "Mataba ba ako?"
You get frustrated when he answers, "no", and accuse him of lying even though you did gain a little weight. You get even more frustrated when he tells you the truth because somehow it hurts your feelings. Be confident about your body because men love confident women. You just have to embrace your own body structure. Avoid comparing yourself to other girls.
3. "Saan tayo kakain?"
When he decides, you'll contradict him. If he lets you choose, you get mad, telling him he's pressuring you. If you already have a restaurant in mind, don't bother asking him, just tell him.
4. "Kailan ka uuwi?"
Ironically, he hasn't left home yet and you're already asking when he'll come back. Your partner is not a child. He will update you when he wants to. When a man feels obliged to let his partner his whereabouts, it's a bit of a turn off for them.
5. "Bakit kayo naghiwalay ng ex mo?"
It shouldn't concern you the reason they broke up. In reality, you don't even want to know. You just want to see if your partner is still affected by his former lover. Before you dare ask your partner regarding his past, ask yourself first, "does it matter?"
Are you guilty of asking these questions to your partner? Share your stories with us in the comments section!
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